I just got mine today and I am 14 and happy because I really don’t have boobs and I hope that comes soon and I am scard. Well I went to the bathroom any did my normal thing and I noticed when I wiped and saw a dark color at fist I was all maybe this is a mistake but then I looked at my underware and I got a mini panic attack(I get panic attack easy cus I was born with a nerve problem) so I just cleaned myself and told my mom all calmly cus I was still in shock and she just gave me a high five and said it is about time, well then I went back to the bathroom cus I forgot to put a pad on an I was confused on the wings but I understand now and also I still didn’t clean my underware yet and going to do that right now.